Sexual fantasies are a very common idea, and it is perfectly normal for everyone to have a variety of sexual fantasies, some of which may be very strange, and some of which may transcend moral and ethical constraints. However, most people are afraid to talk about their sexual fantasies with their partners because they are ashamed or afraid that their partners will not be able to accept these thoughts or preferences. It’s normal to have such fears, but at the same time, it’s important to realize that these sexual fantasies are normal.
A recent survey showed that about sixty percent of people have not shared their sexual fantasies with their partners, while those who are happy to share their fantasies with their partners have a higher percentage of satisfaction with their sex lives, which also shows that sharing sexual fantasies has a very positive effect on sexual satisfaction.
There may be many reasons why people are afraid to share their sexual fantasies with their partners, but whatever those reasons may be, communicating openly with your partner about your fantasies can better preserve your relationship, allow you to get to know each other better, and maintain the long-term excitement of sex. Below I will share with you some common types of sexual fantasies, as well as teach you how to share these sexual fantasies of yours with your partner.
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5 Common Sexual Fantasies That Men Express Having
1.Threesomes/Group Sex
Threesomes or group sex is a common sexual fantasy, almost everyone at some point fantasizes about having sex with three or even more people, and in surveys of sexual desires and fantasies, it has been shown that women are more likely to fantasize about sexual experiences compared to men, and that many men get the idea of wanting to have sex with two women at the same time, or that some men would like to see their partner having sex with another man while not participating themselves.
Threesomes are appealing for a variety of reasons; some people desire to feel physically subjugated, they want the sensation of being kissed or touched by more than one person at the same time, or they desire to experience different sexual experiences with different partners.
More people limit their fantasies about threesomes or group sex to their imagination because they may just like to imagine similar scenarios, but a real threesome may not apply to every couple because to bring a third person into the bedroom you need to establish complete trust with that person and you need to accept the same rules of sex, which is not easy.
2.Sex Outdoors/Sex in a Public Place
These types of sexual fantasies are usually not embarrassing, but they are just as exciting, and if you want to try these different locations for sex, it is very important to communicate with your partner ahead of time, as some partners may not be able to accept this idea, and you can use this as an opportunity to ask her why she can’t accept it and the boundaries that she has for sex.
3.BDSM
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BDSM is also a common sexual fantasy, and both males and females may crave the fetish of being dominated or demanding obedience from each other, although in more survey data, males tend to prefer dominance, while females prefer the pleasure of being dominated.BDSM encompasses a wide variety of play styles, and it’s not all about the familiar bondage and bondage, but also about the pleasure that comes from pain. Some people enjoy the sensations of pain, they may try wax dripping, or slapping for pain and pleasure, which is also a form of BDSM, and some people enjoy the sensations of sadism and masochism.
In the game of dominating and being dominated, you are able to fully engage in such exciting moments and get a complete relaxation from the stresses of life.
Not everyone knows what type of BDSM play they enjoy though, so it’s good to learn about it through some BDSM videos or erotic movies, for example.
4.Forced Sexual Acts/Rape Fantasy
Forced sex or rape is also a common sexual fantasy for women, but that doesn’t mean they really desire to be raped, because when it comes to fantasizing, one’s brain is a very safe space and you don’t feel insecure, but in a real rape, one would feel scared and fearful, which not only makes one lose their sexual desire, but also not able to feel sexual pleasure from it, but there are still ways to There is still a way to fulfill these types of desires. That is to try it with a partner you can trust. Having sex with a partner without their consent is similar to role-playing, but ensures that both you and your partner are in a safe environment and can feel the excitement similar to rape.
5.Masturbation
According to survey data, about seventy percent or more of people have fantasized about being premiered by their partner and many women and men desire to have their partner masturbate in front of them or engage in mutual masturbation, this sexual fantasy is most likely due to the intimate nature of the activity of masturbation, it is generally difficult for your partner to masturbate in front of you or to see you masturbate in front of him, which makes this activity very interesting.
If you want to masturbate with your partner to each other, you can tell him that you like to watch her when she masturbates, or that you want to masturbate with her to each other in hopes of bringing each other to orgasm by masturbating. Making similar requests to your partner during foreplay would be more appropriate and easier for your partner to accept.